I would highly recommend reading Ragan Sutterfield's short post, very good ideas on changing this new found tradition.
On another point, this year 5 people died because of crowds rushing to buy the latest electronic device or toy.
5 people died.
One was a worker that was trying to keep customers from breaking down the doors at Walmart, he was trampled to death by the crowd.
How as Christians respond to these actions? Is this how we celebrate the coming of Christ?
Try something new...
Don't buy anything for Christmas this year.
Make stuff.
Write a story for someone.
Give your time to people.